I am looking for my mindmate and companion to grow old together in a serious, close, bonded, exclusive, committed relationship, as a shared and reciprocal safe haven.
My wish is a relationship according to the 'Egalitarian Rational Commitment Paradigm'. A web search will lead you to where you can learn more about this concept.
I am German, this explains my not perfect English. My search for a compatible mindmate is world wide, if there is a common language, which can be English, German, Spanish, French, Dutch or Italian. In the times of email, telephone and airtravel, geographical distance is much easier to overcome than mental distance.
I will send a picture in private email, but only after a bit of corresponding, when there is enough interest in my person. I do not want to be either chosen or rejected because of a picture. If my profile without a picture does not interest you, then you are too superficial for me.
Ideal match description:
You are PHILEMON, if you
~ are a man between about 58 and 68;
~ are a university graduate;
~ are an atheist and apistic, a skeptic, rational and free of any woo-woo-beliefs;
~ are childfree by not having any children of any age;
~ do not have or need pets;
~ are politically between left and green;
~ are bearded and natural by refraining from any body-modification, lacking vanity;
~ do not smoke and drink in moderation,
~ value sharing time and activities with a partner much more than money;
~ feel a stronger need for togetherness and sharing than for personal space and independence;
~ are more an Epicurean than a hedonist;
~ have high ethical standards and values like honesty, sincerity, monogamy, faithfulness, reliability, responsibility, consideration;
~ are sensitive, emotional, caring, hypoanimalistic,
~ are a deep thinker, who enjoys meaningful and constructive communication;
~ prefer cooperation over competition;
~ are attracted to a mate by her aptitude for intellectual intimacy;
~ are clever enough to find and contact me !
With the exception of the beard, I am all of the above myself.
I do NOT expect you to
~ be taller than myself (5'4"
~ be wealthy with a high social status
~ be a strong and muscular stud
I want to love, not to puke. I do NOT want any contact with men, who evoke my nausea, because they are:
~ cheaters;
~ promiscuous;
~ looking for the use of female bodies without long-term commitment;
~ consumers of pornography
WARNING!!!
Some of the women profiles you see here might be scams to collect money.
REMEMBER, women who is really interested in you will never ask for money.
Be careful, don`t send the money to anybody!